maau6 hap6 san4 lei4貌合神離貌合神离
Jyutpingmaau6 hap6 san4 lei4
Yalemaauh hahp sàhn lèih
Definition
To be seemingly in agreement but actually at variance or divided.
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How it's used
Describes a state of superficial harmony that masks deep, underlying discord. It is frequently used to critique failing relationships or dysfunctional professional partnerships where cooperation has become performative. The idiom carries a sense of coldness and inevitable breakdown.
Examples
The two of them seem like good friends on the surface, but they are actually at odds.
The management of this company is divided; how can they lead the employees?
Related words
Common phrases
a relationship that is at odds
Common mistake
Do not use this to describe simple disagreements or arguments. It specifically implies a facade of unity, so it is inappropriate if the conflict is already open or public.
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