jiu1 sam1 jiu1 fai3扷心扷肺
Jyutpingjiu1 sam1 jiu1 fai3
Yaleyīu sām yīu fai
Definition
Hurtful, irritating, or deeply annoying; cutting to the quick.
colloquialemotion
How it's used
Describes a deep, visceral sense of internal turmoil or heartache that feels physically painful. It is often used when witnessing someone else's suffering or when dealing with a situation that leaves one feeling helpless and deeply troubled. Unlike simple sadness, this term emphasizes the gnawing, persistent nature of the emotional pain.
Examples
Seeing them suffer like this really tears me apart.
What you said made me feel distressed and anxious all night.
Related words
Common phrases
really heartbreaking
Common mistake
Do not confuse this with physical pain in the chest or stomach. It is strictly for emotional distress and should not be used to describe medical symptoms.
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Grammar guides
- LocationHow to say where something is using 喺 (hai2), place words like 度, and the common coverbs that work like English prepositions.
- Serial verbsStringing two or more verbs together without any joining word, like go to the shop buy things. Extremely common in Cantonese.
- 將 disposalHow to move the object in front of the verb with 將, to focus on what happens to it. Common in instructions and writing.



