hoi1 hau2 gap3 zoek6 lei6開口夾著脷开口夹着脷

Jyutpinghoi1 hau2 gap3 zoek6 lei6
Yalehōi háu gap jeuhk leih

Definition

To speak inadvertently and cause embarrassment, offend others, or bring bad luck.

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How it's used

This idiom describes the specific social mishap of accidentally mentioning a taboo topic or a sensitive personal detail that offends or embarrasses the listener. It literally evokes the image of biting one's own tongue while trying to speak, suggesting that the speaker's own words have caused them harm. It is frequently used as a warning to others to be tactful or as a critique of someone who lacks social awareness.

Examples

Be careful with what you say, don't put your foot in your mouth.
He always says the wrong thing, making the situation very awkward.

Related words

Common phrases

always putting one's foot in one's mouth

Common mistake

Learners often mistake this for a general term for being talkative or stuttering, but it specifically refers to the social consequence of saying the wrong thing at the wrong time.

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