zi6 gei2 jau2自己友
Jyutpingzi6 gei2 jau2
Yalejih géi yáu
Definition
One of us; someone belonging to the same group or sharing the same identity.
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How it's used
This term carries a strong sense of in-group solidarity and shared identity. It is often used to signal trust or to exclude outsiders from a conversation or situation. You will frequently hear it when someone is asking for a favor or trying to establish rapport by emphasizing a common background or affiliation.
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We are all one of us, no need to be so polite.
They are all in the same group, don't speak carelessly.
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Common phrases
to treat someone as one of us
Common mistake
Do not confuse this with 朋友, which is a general term for a friend. 自己友 implies a shared bond or alliance that goes beyond mere friendship, often suggesting that the people involved are on the same side of an issue or belong to the same circle.
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Grammar guides
- TonesCantonese has six tones, and the tones can change in certain grammatical contexts. Learn the six tones and the rules for tone change.
- Time and datesClock time, days of the week, months, and years. The patterns you need to make plans and talk about when things happen.
- Modal verbsHow to say can, will, may, should, must, and want. The core modal verbs of Cantonese and the differences that trip up beginners.



