zi6 gei2 jau2自己友

Jyutpingzi6 gei2 jau2
Yalejih géi yáu
名詞

Definition

One of us; someone belonging to the same group or sharing the same identity.

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How it's used

This term carries a strong sense of in-group solidarity and shared identity. It is often used to signal trust or to exclude outsiders from a conversation or situation. You will frequently hear it when someone is asking for a favor or trying to establish rapport by emphasizing a common background or affiliation.

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Common phrases

to treat someone as one of us

Common mistake

Do not confuse this with 朋友, which is a general term for a friend. 自己友 implies a shared bond or alliance that goes beyond mere friendship, often suggesting that the people involved are on the same side of an issue or belong to the same circle.

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