to4 seoi1 gaa1佗衰家
Jyutpingto4 seoi1 gaa1
Yaletòh sēui gā
Definition
To bring disgrace or trouble upon one's family or group.
colloquialfamilypeople
How it's used
This term carries a strong sense of moral failure and collective shame. It implies that the individual's actions have caused their family or group to lose face or suffer tangible consequences, such as financial debt or social stigma. It is often used as a harsh rebuke to someone who has acted selfishly or recklessly.
Examples
He is always causing trouble outside, he is such a disgrace to the family.
Related words
Common phrases
truly a disgrace
Common mistake
Learners often mistake this for simply being a bad person, but the core meaning is specifically about the negative impact on one's family or group reputation. It is not used for minor mistakes but for actions that cause significant embarrassment or trouble to others.
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Grammar guides
- NegationHow to say no, not, didn't, and don't in Cantonese. The four main negation words and when to use each one.
- Numbers and moneyCounting, talking about money, and asking how much things cost. Includes the two words for two and the everyday words for dollars and cents.
- Aspect markersCantonese has no tenses, but it does have aspect markers. Learn how zo2, gwo3, gan2, and hai2 dou6 show completion, experience, and ongoing action.
