ngaan5 m4 gin3 wai4 ling4 lei6眼唔見為伶俐眼唔见为伶俐

Jyutpingngaan5 m4 gin3 wai4 ling4 lei6
Yalengáahn m̀h gin wàih lìhng leih

Definition

Out of sight, out of mind; what the eye does not see, the heart does not grieve over.

colloquialemotionpeople

How it's used

This proverb describes the act of intentionally ignoring unpleasant things to maintain personal peace or avoid conflict. It implies that by not witnessing a problem, one avoids the emotional burden or the obligation to intervene. It is often used when someone chooses to turn a blind eye to a situation they cannot change.

Examples

He behaves so badly at work, I'll just ignore it to save myself the trouble.

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Common mistake

Learners often mistake this for a literal description of vision, but it is strictly a behavioral strategy for avoiding stress. It is not used to describe actual physical blindness or accidental oversight.

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