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Yalemàhn jāt bān bān
Definition
Refined and gentle; polite and elegant in manner.
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How it's used
This idiom is used exclusively to describe men who appear cultured, soft-spoken, and well-mannered. It carries a slightly formal or literary tone, so it is often used in descriptive writing or when making a polite observation about someone's character. While it implies a positive, gentle demeanor, it can sometimes be used ironically to suggest someone is overly bookish or lacks a rugged edge.
Examples
He speaks in a refined and gentle way, and is very polite.
Why are you dressed so elegantly and refined today?
Related words
Common phrases
having a refined and gentle appearance
Common mistake
Do not use this to describe women, as the term is traditionally reserved for men. For women, other adjectives like 溫文爾雅 are more appropriate.
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Grammar guides
- TonesCantonese has six tones, and the tones can change in certain grammatical contexts. Learn the six tones and the rules for tone change.
- Time and datesClock time, days of the week, months, and years. The patterns you need to make plans and talk about when things happen.
- Modal verbsHow to say can, will, may, should, must, and want. The core modal verbs of Cantonese and the differences that trip up beginners.



