ban1 ban1 jau5 lai5彬彬有禮彬彬有礼
Jyutpingban1 ban1 jau5 lai5
Yalebān bān yáuh láih
Definition
Refined and courteous; polite and well-mannered.
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How it's used
This idiom describes a balanced, natural level of politeness that feels neither forced nor lacking. It is typically used to praise someone's refined demeanor or social grace in formal or semi-formal settings. While it implies a high standard of behavior, it does not carry the stiff or overly formal connotation that some other idioms might.
Examples
He is polite to everyone and is very popular.
Remember to be well-mannered when you see your elders.
Related words
Common phrases
to treat others with good manners
to have a polite and refined attitude
Common mistake
Learners often mistake this for a general term for being nice, but it specifically refers to refined manners and social etiquette rather than just being kind or friendly.
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Grammar guides
- TonesCantonese has six tones, and the tones can change in certain grammatical contexts. Learn the six tones and the rules for tone change.
- Time and datesClock time, days of the week, months, and years. The patterns you need to make plans and talk about when things happen.
- Modal verbsHow to say can, will, may, should, must, and want. The core modal verbs of Cantonese and the differences that trip up beginners.



