ji1 ji1 bat1 se2依依不捨依依不舍
Jyutpingji1 ji1 bat1 se2
Yaleyī yī bāt sé
Definition
Reluctant to leave or part with someone or something.
colloquialemotionpeople
How it's used
This idiom carries a slightly literary or sentimental tone, often used to describe emotional farewells between friends, lovers, or family members. While it is perfectly acceptable in spoken Cantonese, it is more expressive than the common phrase 唔捨得. It implies a lingering attachment that makes the act of leaving physically or emotionally difficult.
Examples
They were so reluctant to part when they were leaving, not wanting to separate so soon.
Do you really need to be so reluctant to part? We'll see each other again tomorrow anyway.
Related words
Common phrases
a feeling of reluctance to part
to appear reluctant to part
Common mistake
Learners often mistakenly use this as a direct verb like 唔捨得, but it functions more as an adverbial or descriptive phrase. You cannot simply say 我依依不捨佢, as it requires a context of parting or a description of the emotional state during a departure.
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