hou2 seng1 hou2 hei3好聲好氣好声好气
Jyutpinghou2 seng1 hou2 hei3
Yalehóu sēng hóu hei
Definition
To speak in a polite, calm, and reasonable tone of voice.
colloquialcommunicationemotion
How it's used
This expression describes a deliberate effort to maintain a polite and patient tone, especially when the other person is being difficult or unreasonable. It implies a contrast between the speaker's controlled demeanor and the potential for conflict. It is frequently used as a plea for de-escalation during an argument.
Examples
I am speaking to you calmly, why are you losing your temper?
If there is an issue, let's sit down and talk it out reasonably.
Related words
Common phrases
to talk things over reasonably
to speak in a calm manner
Common mistake
Learners often mistake this for a general way to say someone has a nice voice, but it specifically refers to the attitude and patience behind the speech rather than the acoustic quality of the voice itself.
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