gin3 jan4 gong2 jan4 waa2 gin3 gwai2 gong2 gwai2 waa2見人講人話,見鬼講鬼話见人讲人话,见鬼讲鬼话

Jyutpinggin3 jan4 gong2 jan4 waa2 gin3 gwai2 gong2 gwai2 waa2
Yalegin yàhn góng yàhn wá gin gwái góng gwái wá
語句

Definition

To adapt one's speech or behavior to please whoever one is with; to be two-faced or insincere.

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How it's used

This idiom carries a strong negative connotation of being insincere or manipulative. It describes someone who lacks a consistent personality or set of values, shifting their stance purely to gain favor or avoid conflict. It is frequently used to criticize people in professional or social settings who are perceived as being fake or overly sycophantic.

Examples

He really tells people what they want to hear, he is hard to trust.

Common phrases

to be a person who tells everyone what they want to hear

Common mistake

Learners often mistake this for a positive trait of being adaptable or diplomatic. However, it is almost exclusively used as a criticism for someone who is untrustworthy or lacks integrity.

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