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Definition

To blame or rebuke oneself.

neutralemotion

How it's used

Focuses on the internal process of self-reproach rather than external expression. It is often used to comfort someone who is dwelling too much on past errors. While it implies a sense of responsibility, it carries a slightly more formal or literary weight compared to the more common spoken expression 責怪自己.

Examples

Don't blame yourself for making a mistake; just fix it next time.
You are always blaming yourself, which doesn't help the situation at all.

Common phrases

excessive self-blame

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