mei4

Jyutpingmei4
Yalemèih
Uncommon

Definition

Flatter, charm, or act in a sycophantic manner.

  1. to flatter; to curry favor
  2. charming; beautiful; coquettish
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How it's used

This character is rarely used in isolation in spoken Cantonese and is almost always part of a compound word like 媚態 or 媚笑. It carries a strong negative connotation of being servile or insincere to gain favor, distinguishing it from simply being charming or attractive. When used as a verb, it implies a deliberate, often pathetic, attempt to please someone in a position of power.

Examples

He is always fawning over the boss with a sycophantic smile, it is really disgusting.
Why do you need to be so sycophantic to him? We are just friends.

Common phrases

fawning smile
sycophantic manner

Common mistake

Learners often confuse this with 魅, which relates to charm or supernatural allure. While 媚 focuses on the act of fawning or sycophancy, 魅 is about an inherent, often mysterious, attractiveness.

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