ho1 kau4苛求
Jyutpingho1 kau4
Yalehō kàuh
Definition
To make excessive, unreasonable demands or overcriticize.
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How it's used
This term carries a formal weight that often contrasts with the casual, spoken nature of Cantonese. It is typically used when someone is being unreasonable or setting standards that are impossible to meet. While it functions as a verb, it is frequently used with the adverb 太 or 咁 to describe a state of being overly critical.
Examples
Don't be too demanding of others, everyone has flaws.
Related words
Common phrases
demanding perfection
Common mistake
Learners often confuse this with 要求, which is a neutral request. Using 苛求 implies a negative judgment about the person making the demands, so it should be avoided when simply asking for something.
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Grammar guides
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