baai2 bou3擺佈摆布
Jyutpingbaai2 bou3
Yalebáai bou
Definition
To manipulate, control, or dictate to someone.
colloquialpeopleemotion
How it's used
This term carries a strong sense of being treated like a puppet or an object that can be moved around at will. It is frequently used in contexts where someone feels their autonomy is being stripped away by a dominant or controlling figure. Unlike simple words for control, it implies a lack of respect for the person being manipulated.
Examples
He always wants to manipulate me into doing things.
Don't let people push you around.
Related words
Common phrases
to be manipulated by others
Common mistake
Learners often confuse this with general words for control like 控制. Remember that 擺佈 specifically evokes the imagery of arranging items or people on a stage or surface, making it more personal and often more insulting than a neutral term for management or regulation.
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Grammar guides
- NegationHow to say no, not, didn't, and don't in Cantonese. The four main negation words and when to use each one.
- Numbers and moneyCounting, talking about money, and asking how much things cost. Includes the two words for two and the everyday words for dollars and cents.
- Aspect markersCantonese has no tenses, but it does have aspect markers. Learn how zo2, gwo3, gan2, and hai2 dou6 show completion, experience, and ongoing action.
