zi3 san1 si6 ngoi6置身事外
Jyutpingzi3 san1 si6 ngoi6
Yaleji sān sih ngoih
Definition
To keep oneself out of an affair; to remain aloof and uninvolved in a matter.
colloquialpeopledaily actions
How it's used
Carries a slightly formal or literary tone despite being used in everyday speech to describe someone avoiding trouble. It often implies a conscious decision to remain neutral or detached when others are involved in a conflict. While it describes an action, it is frequently used to criticize someone for being indifferent or unwilling to help.
Examples
They are arguing, so of course I should stay out of it.
This matter is so complicated, how can you possibly keep yourself out of it?
Related words
Common phrases
completely stay out of the matter
want to stay out of the matter
Common mistake
Learners often mistake this for a simple verb, but it functions more like an idiom or a set phrase. It cannot be easily modified with common aspect markers like 咗 or 緊, as the phrase itself describes a state of detachment rather than a specific action.
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Grammar guides
- LocationHow to say where something is using 喺 (hai2), place words like 度, and the common coverbs that work like English prepositions.
- Serial verbsStringing two or more verbs together without any joining word, like go to the shop buy things. Extremely common in Cantonese.
- 將 disposalHow to move the object in front of the verb with 將, to focus on what happens to it. Common in instructions and writing.



