saam1 hau2 luk6 min6三口六面
Definition
To confront each other face-to-face in a three-way meeting to clarify things and settle a dispute.
How it's used
This expression implies a formal or serious confrontation where all relevant parties are present to prevent hearsay or misunderstandings. It is typically used when a conflict has reached a point where private discussion is no longer sufficient and a direct, transparent resolution is required. The imagery of three mouths and six faces highlights the necessity of having everyone involved in the dispute present to provide their side of the story.
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Common mistake
Learners often mistake this for a simple meeting or chat, but it carries a specific nuance of resolving a conflict or clearing up a suspicion. It is not used for casual social gatherings or neutral business meetings.
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