oi3 lei5 bat1 lei5愛理不理爱理不理

Jyutpingoi3 lei5 bat1 lei5
Yaleoi léih bāt léih
語句

Definition

Indifferent, cold, or dismissive toward someone or something.

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How it's used

This idiom describes a specific attitude of coldness or dismissiveness where someone intentionally ignores or shows no interest in another person. It is often used to describe a change in behavior, such as when someone stops being enthusiastic or attentive. The structure implies a deliberate lack of engagement rather than just being busy or distracted.

Examples

He acts like he is completely indifferent towards me.
Why are you being so cold and indifferent to people?

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Common mistake

Do not confuse this with simply being quiet or shy. It carries a negative connotation of being aloof or rude, so it is not appropriate to use when describing someone who is naturally introverted.

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