kong3 lai6伉儷伉俪
Jyutpingkong3 lai6
Yalekong laih
Definition
An honorific term for a married couple, used only in highly formal settings.
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How it's used
Reserved strictly for formal written correspondence, wedding invitations, or formal introductions on stage. Using this in casual conversation sounds overly pretentious or sarcastic, as if you are mocking the couple. It is essentially the Cantonese equivalent of referring to a couple as "the honourable Mr. and Mrs." in English.
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deoi3對deuiExamples
We are very honoured to have Mr. and Mrs. Chan attend today.
When will Mr. and Mrs. Cheung be returning to Hong Kong?
Related words
Common phrases
a couple with deep affection for each other
Common mistake
Do not use this to refer to your own parents or friends in daily speech. It is exclusively an honorific used by a third party to address or refer to a married couple with high respect.
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Grammar guides
- TonesCantonese has six tones, and the tones can change in certain grammatical contexts. Learn the six tones and the rules for tone change.
- Time and datesClock time, days of the week, months, and years. The patterns you need to make plans and talk about when things happen.
- Modal verbsHow to say can, will, may, should, must, and want. The core modal verbs of Cantonese and the differences that trip up beginners.



