koek3 zi1 bat1 gung1卻之不恭却之不恭
Jyutpingkoek3 zi1 bat1 gung1
Yalekeuk jī bāt gūng
Definition
It is impolite to refuse a gift or invitation; a polite phrase used to accept a gesture of goodwill.
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How it's used
This is a formal idiom used as a polite way to accept an offer or gift when you want to sound humble and appreciative. It functions as a set phrase to soften the act of taking something, signaling that you are only accepting because you do not want to appear rude by rejecting the other person's kindness. It is almost exclusively used in situations where the speaker is being offered something they genuinely want to accept.
Examples
You are so kind to give me a gift, so I will accept it with thanks.
Since you invited me so sincerely, I will gladly accept.
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Common phrases
I am honored to accept, but I feel unworthy of such a gift.
Common mistake
Do not use this in casual or intimate settings, as it sounds overly formal and stiff. It is meant for polite social interactions, not for everyday requests between close friends or family members.
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Grammar guides
- TonesCantonese has six tones, and the tones can change in certain grammatical contexts. Learn the six tones and the rules for tone change.
- Time and datesClock time, days of the week, months, and years. The patterns you need to make plans and talk about when things happen.
- Modal verbsHow to say can, will, may, should, must, and want. The core modal verbs of Cantonese and the differences that trip up beginners.
