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Jyutpingji1 jap1
Yaleyī yāp
Definition
A hidden, intimate, or flirtatious relationship between two people.
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How it's used
This term carries a slightly old-fashioned or gossipy tone, often used when discussing someone's private romantic life behind their back. It specifically implies a relationship that is kept away from the public eye, often carrying a connotation of being illicit or scandalous. While it describes a secret connection, it is distinct from simply dating, as it emphasizes the hidden nature of the bond.
Examples
It turns out the two of them have a secret affair.
Do you know if they are having a secret relationship?
Related words
Common mistake
Learners often mistake this for a standard word for dating, but it is specifically used for relationships that are being kept quiet or are considered inappropriate. It is not a neutral term for a boyfriend or girlfriend.
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Grammar guides
- Directional complementsThe small words added after a verb to show direction of movement, like up, down, out, in, and back. Common in everyday Cantonese.
- DemonstrativesThis and that with 呢 and 嗰, the personal pronouns, and how 哋 turns I, you, and he into we, you all, and they.
- Resultative complementsSticking a result word onto a verb to show how it turned out, like eat until full or look and find. A productive everyday pattern.



