jan4 gaap3 jan4 jyun4人夾人緣人夹人缘
Jyutpingjan4 gaap3 jan4 jyun4
Yaleyàhn gaap yàhn yùhn
Definition
The idea that whether people get along or become friends depends entirely on the compatibility of their personalities.
colloquialpeopleemotion
How it's used
This phrase encapsulates the fatalistic view that social compatibility is largely predestined. It is frequently used to comfort someone or explain away a failed relationship without placing blame on either party. The term highlights the intangible nature of interpersonal chemistry that transcends logic or effort.
Examples
Do you get along with him? It just depends on personal chemistry.
We didn't end up being friends; it's probably just a matter of compatibility.
Related words
Common phrases
Compatibility is predestined, you cannot force it.
Common mistake
Do not mistake this for a literal description of physical contact or a specific social rule. It is an abstract observation about personality dynamics and should not be used to describe formal business or contractual relationships.
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