fei1 zoeng6 gwo3 ho4飛象過河飞象过河
Jyutpingfei1 zoeng6 gwo3 ho4
Yalefēi jeuhng gwo hòh
Definition
To break a rule, or to reach across a dining table to get food that is far away.
- figurativeto break a rule
- to reach across the table to grab food that is far from oneself
colloquialfooddaily actions
How it's used
Originating from the rules of Chinese chess where the elephant piece cannot cross the river, this phrase is used metaphorically for overstepping boundaries. It is most commonly heard at the dinner table to call out someone reaching across others to grab a dish. When used in a professional or social context, it implies someone is bypassing established procedures or interfering in matters that are not their responsibility.
Examples
Don't reach across the table for food that's far away.
He always breaks the rules at work, which annoys everyone.
Related words
Common phrases
reaching across the table for food
to overstep one's authority
Common mistake
Do not use this to describe someone simply being ambitious or efficient. It specifically carries a negative connotation of being rude, intrusive, or violating a protocol.
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Grammar guides
- LocationHow to say where something is using 喺 (hai2), place words like 度, and the common coverbs that work like English prepositions.
- Serial verbsStringing two or more verbs together without any joining word, like go to the shop buy things. Extremely common in Cantonese.
- 將 disposalHow to move the object in front of the verb with 將, to focus on what happens to it. Common in instructions and writing.



