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Definition

Mediator or peacemaker; someone who reconciles disputes.

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How it's used

This term often carries a slightly cynical or weary tone, implying that the person is stuck in the middle of a conflict they did not start. It is frequently used when someone feels forced into the role, rather than volunteering out of genuine altruism. It captures the social pressure to maintain harmony in a group setting.

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Examples

They are arguing, why do you have to go and act as the mediator?
I don't want to be the mediator for this matter, you handle it yourself.

Related words

Common phrases

to act as a mediator

Common mistake

Do not confuse this with a professional mediator or arbitrator, as it is strictly used for informal, interpersonal conflicts among friends or family members.

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