teoi1 saam1 teoi1 sei3推三推四
Jyutpingteoi1 saam1 teoi1 sei3
Yaletēui sāam tēui sei
Definition
To refuse to do something by repeatedly making excuses; to procrastinate or stall.
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How it's used
This idiom describes a specific type of social evasion where someone uses a series of flimsy excuses to avoid a request. It carries a strong sense of frustration from the speaker, implying that the person being described is being deliberately uncooperative or lazy. It is almost exclusively used to criticize someone's lack of commitment or their tendency to dodge responsibility.
Examples
You keep making excuses when I ask for help, what exactly do you want?
He keeps stalling and making excuses; he just doesn't want to do it.
Related words
Common phrases
always making excuses to avoid doing things
Common mistake
Learners often mistake this for a literal action of pushing things, but it is strictly a metaphorical expression for verbal stalling. Do not use it to describe physical movement or literal pushing.
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