sou2 dip6 dai2數碟底数碟底

Jyutpingsou2 dip6 dai2
Yalesóu dihp dái
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Definition

To expose the secrets of others.

colloquialpeoplecommunication

How it's used

This idiom literally refers to counting the bottom of the plates, which in old-fashioned restaurants was how waiters calculated the bill. It carries a strong negative connotation of being a busybody or a tattletale who reveals private information to cause trouble. It is often used to describe someone who lacks discretion or intentionally undermines others by digging up their past.

Examples

Stop exposing people's secrets all the time.
Why does he have to expose secrets in front of others?

Common phrases

likes to expose others' secrets

Common mistake

Do not use this to mean literally counting plates in a restaurant, as it is strictly metaphorical. It is also not a neutral way to say someone is honest; it specifically implies malicious or unnecessary disclosure of private matters.

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