sau2 zi2 aau2 ceot1 m4 aau2 jap6手指拗出唔拗入
Jyutpingsau2 zi2 aau2 ceot1 m4 aau2 jap6
Yalesáu jí áau chēut m̀h áau yahp
Definition
To help outsiders at the expense of those close to you.
colloquialpeoplefamily
How it's used
This idiom relies on the physical anatomy of the human hand, where fingers naturally curl inward toward the palm. It serves as a strong social critique, implying that someone is acting against the natural order of loyalty by prioritizing strangers over family or close associates. It is almost exclusively used to express disapproval or disappointment regarding someone's lack of solidarity.
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Do not use this to describe someone who is simply being fair or objective. It specifically carries a negative connotation of betrayal or misplaced priorities within a close-knit group.
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Grammar guides
- TonesCantonese has six tones, and the tones can change in certain grammatical contexts. Learn the six tones and the rules for tone change.
- Time and datesClock time, days of the week, months, and years. The patterns you need to make plans and talk about when things happen.
- Modal verbsHow to say can, will, may, should, must, and want. The core modal verbs of Cantonese and the differences that trip up beginners.
