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Definition

To give up on oneself and act recklessly, writing oneself off as hopeless.

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How it's used

Describes a state of self-abandonment where someone stops caring about their future or personal standards. It often implies a sense of defeatism, where the person feels there is no point in trying anymore. The term carries a strong negative connotation of being self-destructive or lazy.

Examples

He lost his job recently and just gave up on himself, playing video games at home all day.
Don't write yourself off like that, pull yourself together.

Common phrases

completely given up on oneself

Common mistake

Learners often confuse this with just being lazy, but it specifically carries the nuance of a psychological breakdown or a conscious decision to stop caring about one's life path.

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