lou1 m4 maai4撈唔埋捞唔埋
Jyutpinglou1 m4 maai4
Yalelōu m̀h màaih
Definition
To not get along with each other.
colloquialpeoplework
How it's used
Originating from the slang term 撈 which means to work or mix with others, this phrase specifically describes a fundamental incompatibility in working styles or personality. It implies that two people are like oil and water, making collaboration impossible. It is frequently used in professional or project-based contexts where cooperation is expected but fails to materialize.
Examples
Their personalities are so different, how could they not get along?
I didn't get along with him at work, so we eventually parted ways.
Common phrases
personalities do not mesh
cannot work together
Common mistake
Do not confuse this with 唔夾, which is a broader term for general incompatibility. 撈唔埋 specifically carries the connotation of failing to work together effectively, whereas 唔夾 can apply to romantic partners or friends who simply have different tastes.
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