jing6 sai3 lou2認細佬认细佬

Jyutpingjing6 sai3 lou2

Yaleyihng sai lóu

Definition

To concede defeat, admit inferiority, or play second fiddle.

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How it's used

This expression carries a strong sense of social hierarchy, implying that the person conceding is voluntarily taking a subordinate position. It is often used in competitive or confrontational situations where one party decides that continuing the struggle is pointless or potentially harmful. The imagery of becoming a younger brother highlights the voluntary acceptance of a lower status to de-escalate tension.

Examples

keoi5佢gam3咁wu3惡，ngo5我wai4唯jau5有jing6認sai3細lou2佬laa1啦。

He is so fierce, I have no choice but to concede.

nei5你sai2使m4唔sai2使jing6認sai3細lou2佬gam3咁faai3快aa4呀？

Do you really have to give in so quickly?

Common phrases

wai4唯jau5有jing6認sai3細lou2佬

have no choice but to concede

Common mistake

Do not confuse this with literal family relationships, as it is strictly used metaphorically to describe submission or backing down. Using it in a formal setting may sound overly casual or even mocking, so reserve it for peer-to-peer interactions.