ji4 zi2 hei3 sai2頤指氣使颐指气使

Jyutpingji4 zi2 hei3 sai2
Yaleyìh jí hei sái

Definition

To boss others around arrogantly; to command people with an overbearing, haughty attitude.

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How it's used

This idiom describes a specific type of condescending behavior where someone uses their status or power to treat others like servants. It carries a strong negative connotation and is typically used to criticize someone who lacks respect for those around them. Unlike simply being demanding, it emphasizes the arrogant, dismissive attitude of the person in charge.

Examples

He is always bossing people around at the office, it is so annoying.
Why are you acting so arrogant and bossy towards your colleagues?

Common phrases

to have an arrogant and bossy attitude

Common mistake

Learners often mistake this for a standard verb phrase, but it is a formal idiom that sounds quite intense in casual conversation. Using it to describe a boss who is merely strict or demanding might be an overstatement; it is reserved for truly haughty or demeaning behavior.

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