gong2 lei5講理讲理
Jyutpinggong2 lei5
Yalegóng léih
Definition
To be reasonable; to reason with someone calmly and rationally.
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How it's used
Often used in the negative form 唔講理 to describe someone who is being stubborn or refusing to listen to logic. It carries a sense of frustration when dealing with someone who ignores facts or common sense. Unlike the formal Mandarin usage, it feels very direct and personal in a heated argument.
Examples
It is useless to try and reason with him.
Let us all sit down and reason this out calmly.
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Common mistake
Do not confuse this with 講道理, which is a noun phrase meaning 'to explain the logic or principles behind something'. While 講理 is a verb phrase focused on the act of reasoning with someone, 講道理 is often used when lecturing or explaining why something is correct.
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