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Definition
To do something so incredibly foolish or outrageous that it would drive one's father to an early grave.
How it's used
This idiom is a hyperbolic expression used to describe someone whose behavior is so infuriating or reckless that it causes their parent extreme distress. It is typically used as a warning to someone acting irresponsibly or as a criticism of a rebellious child. The imagery of having to find a mountain to bury one's father emphasizes the severity of the emotional damage caused by the child's actions.
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Do not use this phrase literally as a description of an actual death, as it is strictly an idiomatic way to express frustration or anger at someone's behavior. It is also highly informal and can sound quite harsh or aggressive depending on the context.
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Grammar guides
- TonesCantonese has six tones, and the tones can change in certain grammatical contexts. Learn the six tones and the rules for tone change.
- Time and datesClock time, days of the week, months, and years. The patterns you need to make plans and talk about when things happen.
- Modal verbsHow to say can, will, may, should, must, and want. The core modal verbs of Cantonese and the differences that trip up beginners.



