gik1 sei2 lou5 dau6 wan2 saan1 baai3激死老豆搵山拜激死老豆揾山拜

Jyutpinggik1 sei2 lou5 dau6 wan2 saan1 baai3
Yalegīk séi lóuh dauh wán sāan baai

Definition

To do something so incredibly foolish or outrageous that it would drive one's father to an early grave.

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How it's used

This idiom is a hyperbolic expression used to describe someone whose behavior is so infuriating or reckless that it causes their parent extreme distress. It is typically used as a warning to someone acting irresponsibly or as a criticism of a rebellious child. The imagery of having to find a mountain to bury one's father emphasizes the severity of the emotional damage caused by the child's actions.

Examples

If you keep messing around like this, you'll really be the death of your father.
He never comes home, is he trying to drive his father to an early grave?

Common phrases

to infuriate one's father

Common mistake

Do not use this phrase literally as a description of an actual death, as it is strictly an idiomatic way to express frustration or anger at someone's behavior. It is also highly informal and can sound quite harsh or aggressive depending on the context.

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