deoi3 hou6 jap6 zo6對號入座对号入座
Jyutpingdeoi3 hou6 jap6 zo6
Yaledeui houh yahp joh
Definition
To take one's assigned seat; figuratively, to assume oneself to be the target of an unmentioned criticism.
- to take one's assigned seat based on the number on a ticket
- figurativeto assume oneself to be the target of an unmentioned criticism or ridicule
colloquialdaily actionspeople
How it's used
Beyond the literal meaning of finding a seat, this phrase is frequently used metaphorically to describe someone who assumes a vague criticism is directed at them. It captures the psychological act of projecting a general comment onto oneself, often when one feels guilty or insecure. Using it in this way implies that the person is being overly sensitive or self-conscious.
Examples
This movie has assigned seating, check your ticket for the seat number first.
They are being so sharp with their words, why do you have to take it personally?
Related words
Common phrases
don't take it personally
mandatory assigned seating
Common mistake
Do not confuse the literal and metaphorical meanings. When used in a social context, it almost always carries a slightly mocking tone, suggesting the person is unnecessarily identifying themselves with a negative remark.
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Grammar guides
- NegationHow to say no, not, didn't, and don't in Cantonese. The four main negation words and when to use each one.
- Numbers and moneyCounting, talking about money, and asking how much things cost. Includes the two words for two and the everyday words for dollars and cents.
- Aspect markersCantonese has no tenses, but it does have aspect markers. Learn how zo2, gwo3, gan2, and hai2 dou6 show completion, experience, and ongoing action.



