can1 hing1 dai6 ，ming4 syun3 zoeng3親兄弟，明算帳亲兄弟，明算帐
Definition
Even brothers should keep clear accounts; financial matters should always be settled clearly regardless of closeness.
How it's used
This expression serves as a cultural safeguard against the awkwardness of mixing personal relationships with financial transactions. It provides a socially acceptable way to insist on repayment or transparency without appearing greedy or unfeeling. Using this phrase effectively shifts the focus from personal distrust to the importance of maintaining long term harmony by avoiding debt disputes.
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Learners often mistake this for a cold or aggressive statement, but it is actually used to preserve relationships by preventing future resentment. It is not meant to be used as an insult to one's family, but rather as a practical rule for financial health.
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Grammar guides
- TonesCantonese has six tones, and the tones can change in certain grammatical contexts. Learn the six tones and the rules for tone change.
- Time and datesClock time, days of the week, months, and years. The patterns you need to make plans and talk about when things happen.
- Modal verbsHow to say can, will, may, should, must, and want. The core modal verbs of Cantonese and the differences that trip up beginners.
