cai1 lei4 zi2 saan3妻離子散妻离子散
Jyutpingcai1 lei4 zi2 saan3
Yalechāi lèih jí saan
Definition
To have one's family torn apart and separated, with the wife leaving and children dispersing.
writtenfamilypeople
How it's used
This idiom carries a heavy, tragic tone, typically used to describe the absolute worst-case scenario for a family unit. It is often invoked in contexts of extreme hardship, such as war, severe economic ruin, or destructive addictions like gambling. Unlike simpler terms for divorce or separation, this phrase emphasizes the total collapse and scattering of family members.
Examples
He gambled until his family was torn apart, it is truly pathetic.
War causes people to lose their families and scatter, who would want to see that?
Related words
Common phrases
lead to the dissolution of a family
cause one's family to be torn apart
Common mistake
Learners often mistake this for a simple term for divorce, but it is much stronger and implies a sense of catastrophe or forced separation rather than a legal or mutual decision.
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Grammar guides
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