bong1 lei5 bat1 bong1 can1幫理不幫親帮理不帮亲
Jyutpingbong1 lei5 bat1 bong1 can1
Yalebōng léih bāt bōng chān
Definition
To side with truth and reason rather than one's relatives or friends.
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How it's used
This expression describes a person who prioritizes objective fairness over personal loyalty or nepotism. It is often used as a compliment to praise someone's integrity or as a warning to friends and family that they will not receive special treatment. It carries a strong sense of moral uprightness and impartiality.
Examples
He has always been someone who stands by principles rather than favoring his own people.
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Common phrases
always stands by principles rather than favoring one's own
Common mistake
Learners often mistake this for a simple description of a person's personality, but it is specifically used to justify or explain why someone is being strict with their own inner circle. It is not used to describe someone who is simply 'fair' in a general sense, but rather someone who actively refuses to let personal relationships influence their judgment.
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Grammar guides
- LocationHow to say where something is using 喺 (hai2), place words like 度, and the common coverbs that work like English prepositions.
- Serial verbsStringing two or more verbs together without any joining word, like go to the shop buy things. Extremely common in Cantonese.
- 將 disposalHow to move the object in front of the verb with 將, to focus on what happens to it. Common in instructions and writing.



