daai6 ji6 mit6 can1大義滅親大义灭亲
Jyutpingdaai6 ji6 mit6 can1
Yaledaaih yih miht chān
Definition
To sacrifice or destroy a relative for a greater cause or for justice.
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How it's used
This idiom carries a heavy, serious tone and is almost exclusively used in formal contexts or when discussing moral dilemmas involving family. It implies a painful sacrifice where one chooses societal justice or legal duty over personal loyalty to kin. It is rarely used in casual conversation unless someone is being dramatic or discussing high-stakes ethical situations.
Examples
For the sake of justice, he put righteousness before family and personally called the police to arrest his younger brother.
Are you really going to put righteousness before family and report your father's illegal activities?
Related words
Common phrases
a decision to put righteousness before family
Common mistake
Learners often mistake this for a general term for punishing family members, but it specifically requires the motivation of a higher moral or legal cause. It is not used for minor family discipline or simple arguments.
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