aau3 geng2拗頸拗颈
Jyutpingaau3 geng2
Yaleaau géng
Definition
To bicker, argue, or contrarily take the opposite stance for the sake of opposing.
colloquialpeopleemotion
How it's used
This term specifically describes the act of being contrarian or stubborn for the sake of opposition. It carries a slightly negative connotation, implying that the person is being difficult or unreasonable rather than just having a different opinion. It is often used to describe children or people in a heated argument who refuse to concede even when they are clearly wrong.
Examples
Why do you always bicker with me?
He loves to take the opposite stance, no matter what I say, he won't listen.
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Common mistake
Do not confuse this with simply having a disagreement or debate. 拗頸 implies a repetitive, stubborn refusal to agree, whereas a normal disagreement might be resolved through logical discussion.
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