to4 seoi1 gaa1陀衰家

Jyutpingto4 seoi1 gaa1
Yaletòh sēui gā

Definition

Someone who ruins their family's fortune or reputation, or brings shame and trouble to those around them.

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How it's used

This term carries a heavy, judgmental tone, implying that the person is not just a nuisance but a source of shame or financial ruin for their household. It is often used to describe someone who is lazy, addicted to gambling, or constantly causing trouble for their relatives. Calling someone this is a very strong insult that attacks their character and their value to their family unit.

Examples

He gambles all the time, he is such a disgrace to the family.

Related words

synonymbaai6 gaa1 zai2敗家仔baih gā jáisee alsoleoi6 gaai1 fong1街坊leuih gāi fōng

Common phrases

a total disgrace to the family

Common mistake

Do not confuse this with simply being poor or unlucky. It specifically implies that the person is an active drain on resources or a source of public embarrassment for their family, rather than someone who is just struggling through no fault of their own.

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