tiu1 nei5 lou5 mei2挑你鹵味挑你卤味
Definition
A euphemistic curse used to insult someone's mother.
How it's used
This phrase is a classic example of a 'polite' swear word, functioning as a phonetic substitute to avoid the harshness of the original profanity. It is widely understood as a direct replacement for the vulgar phrase 𨳒你老母, but it carries a slightly more playful or less aggressive tone depending on the speaker's intent. Using it allows someone to express extreme frustration or anger while technically avoiding the most offensive taboo words in the language.
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Common mistake
Do not mistake this for actual food-related language, as the inclusion of 鹵味 is purely for its phonetic similarity to the vulgar term. Using it in a formal or professional setting will still be perceived as highly offensive and unprofessional despite the euphemistic nature.
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Grammar guides
- QuestionsFrom yes or no questions to asking who, what, where, and when. The patterns you need to ask questions naturally in Cantonese.
- ClassifiersCantonese puts a classifier between a number and a noun, and a bare classifier on its own can mean the. Learn the common ones and how to use them.
- ComparisonsHow to say bigger than, the most, the same as, and not as good as. Cantonese uses 過 where Mandarin uses 比, and that catches a lot of learners out.



