tai2 dak1 hoi1睇得開睇得开
Jyutpingtai2 dak1 hoi1
Yaletái dāk hōi
Definition
To take things philosophically; to be open-minded and not take setbacks to heart.
colloquialemotionpeople
How it's used
Focuses on the mental ability to let go of negative emotions or difficult situations rather than just being optimistic. It implies a process of internalizing a setback and deciding not to let it affect one's peace of mind. Often used to comfort someone who is struggling with a loss or a disappointment.
Examples
You should also try to be more relaxed and not be so obsessed.
After going through so much, they are now very relaxed about things.
Common phrases
one needs to learn to let things go
Common mistake
Do not confuse this with 睇開, which can sometimes mean to be accustomed to seeing something. 睇得開 specifically highlights the emotional maturity of choosing not to dwell on problems.
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Grammar guides
- NegationHow to say no, not, didn't, and don't in Cantonese. The four main negation words and when to use each one.
- Numbers and moneyCounting, talking about money, and asking how much things cost. Includes the two words for two and the everyday words for dollars and cents.
- Aspect markersCantonese has no tenses, but it does have aspect markers. Learn how zo2, gwo3, gan2, and hai2 dou6 show completion, experience, and ongoing action.
