sang1 sei2 zi1 gaau1生死之交
Jyutpingsang1 sei2 zi1 gaau1
Yalesāng séi jī gāau
Definition
Friends with such deep friendship that they are prepared to die for each other; friends through life and death.
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How it's used
This idiom carries a heavy, dramatic weight that is rarely used in casual, everyday small talk. It is typically reserved for describing long-term, intense bonds where individuals have proven their loyalty through extreme hardship or danger. Using it to describe a casual acquaintance will sound overly theatrical or sarcastic.
Examples
They have known each other since they were little; they are definitely friends through life and death.
Are you really friends through life and death with him?
Related words
Common phrases
to become friends through life and death
Common mistake
Learners often mistake this for a common term for best friends, but it implies a level of sacrifice that goes far beyond typical social companionship. Avoid using it for regular friends or colleagues, as it sounds like a line from a period drama or a wuxia novel.
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Grammar guides
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