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Definition
A mediator caught in the middle of opposing sides who often takes blame or heat from all parties.
How it's used
Literally referring to the center of a millstone that bears the most friction, this term describes someone caught in a crossfire between two conflicting parties. It implies that the person is not only stuck in the middle but is also the one receiving the brunt of the frustration from both sides. It is most commonly used in family or workplace contexts where one person is expected to appease two opposing individuals.
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Common mistake
Do not confuse this with a neutral mediator or negotiator, as 磨心 specifically emphasizes the suffering or the unpleasant pressure the person experiences. A professional mediator is usually referred to as 調解員, whereas 磨心 is an involuntary and often victimized position.
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Grammar guides
- TonesCantonese has six tones, and the tones can change in certain grammatical contexts. Learn the six tones and the rules for tone change.
- Time and datesClock time, days of the week, months, and years. The patterns you need to make plans and talk about when things happen.
- Modal verbsHow to say can, will, may, should, must, and want. The core modal verbs of Cantonese and the differences that trip up beginners.
