loi4 syut3 si6 fei1 ze2 ，bin6 si6 si6 fei1 jan4來說是非者，便是是非人来说是非者，便是是非人
Jyutpingloi4 syut3 si6 fei1 ze2 ，bin6 si6 si6 fei1 jan4
Yalelòih syut sih fēi jé ，bihn sih sih fēi yàhn
Definition
The person who comes gossip and carry tales is usually the troublemaker themselves.
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How it's used
This classic proverb serves as a stern warning against trusting people who frequently gossip or stir up drama. It highlights the observation that individuals who constantly bring negative information about others to you are often the ones orchestrating the conflict behind the scenes. Using this phrase adds a layer of traditional wisdom and moral authority to your criticism of someone's character.
Examples
Don't listen to him; those who bring gossip are the ones causing trouble.
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Common mistake
Avoid using this in casual, lighthearted settings as it carries a heavy, judgmental tone. It is meant for serious situations where you want to warn someone about a toxic person rather than just complaining about a minor annoyance.
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