han6 zai2恨仔
Jyutpinghan6 zai2
Yalehahn jái
Definition
To long for a son; to desperately wish to have a baby boy.
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How it's used
This term captures a specific cultural pressure where having a male heir is prioritized. It functions as a verb phrase meaning to crave or yearn for a son, often implying an intense, almost desperate emotional state. It is frequently used in contexts involving family expectations or traditional beliefs regarding lineage.
Examples
She is so desperate for a son that she is constantly praying for one.
Related words
Common phrases
to be feverishly obsessed with having a son
Common mistake
Do not confuse this with the standard verb 恨, which means to hate or resent. In this specific compound, the meaning shifts entirely to a strong desire or longing.
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Grammar guides
- NegationHow to say no, not, didn't, and don't in Cantonese. The four main negation words and when to use each one.
- Numbers and moneyCounting, talking about money, and asking how much things cost. Includes the two words for two and the everyday words for dollars and cents.
- Aspect markersCantonese has no tenses, but it does have aspect markers. Learn how zo2, gwo3, gan2, and hai2 dou6 show completion, experience, and ongoing action.



