han6 zai2恨仔

Jyutpinghan6 zai2
Yalehahn jái

Definition

To long for a son; to desperately wish to have a baby boy.

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How it's used

This term captures a specific cultural pressure where having a male heir is prioritized. It functions as a verb phrase meaning to crave or yearn for a son, often implying an intense, almost desperate emotional state. It is frequently used in contexts involving family expectations or traditional beliefs regarding lineage.

Examples

She is so desperate for a son that she is constantly praying for one.
Why are you so obsessed with having a son? Daughters are just as well-behaved.

Related words

Common phrases

to be feverishly obsessed with having a son

Common mistake

Do not confuse this with the standard verb 恨, which means to hate or resent. In this specific compound, the meaning shifts entirely to a strong desire or longing.

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