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Jyutpinggwai1 mat6
Yalegwāi maht
Definition
Close female friend; bestie.
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How it's used
Originally a literary term referring to a woman's private quarters, this word has been fully adopted into modern colloquial Cantonese to describe a platonic soulmate. It implies a level of intimacy and trust that goes beyond a casual acquaintance. While it is almost exclusively used for female friendships, it captures the specific cultural expectation of having a confidante to share life's ups and downs with.
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She is my best friend, I can tell her all my secrets.
Where are you and your bestie going to eat tonight?
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Common mistake
Do not use this word to describe male friends, as it carries a strong feminine connotation. For a male equivalent, use 兄弟 or 老死 instead.
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