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Definition
A blackmail or ransom letter, or humorously, an invitation to an event where one is expected to give money.
- a ransom note or blackmail letter sent by kidnappers to the victim's family
- slangan invitation, especially to a wedding, where guests are expected to gift money
How it's used
Originally referring to a ransom note, this term is frequently used in a self-deprecating or humorous way to describe wedding invitation cards. It highlights the social pressure and financial burden associated with attending formal banquets where guests are expected to provide a cash gift. Using this term implies a close relationship with the recipient, as it would be offensive to use it with someone you do not know well.
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Do not use this term in formal or professional settings, as the literal meaning is associated with serious criminal activity. Even when used jokingly, ensure the context makes it clear you are referring to a social invitation rather than an actual threat.
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Grammar guides
- NegationHow to say no, not, didn't, and don't in Cantonese. The four main negation words and when to use each one.
- Numbers and moneyCounting, talking about money, and asking how much things cost. Includes the two words for two and the everyday words for dollars and cents.
- Aspect markersCantonese has no tenses, but it does have aspect markers. Learn how zo2, gwo3, gan2, and hai2 dou6 show completion, experience, and ongoing action.
