to4 to2 ning6陀陀擰陀陀拧
Jyutpingto4 to2 ning6
Yaletòh tó nihng
Definition
To be tricked, played, or so thoroughly confused that one does not know what to do.
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How it's used
Describes a state of being spun around or led in circles by someone else's inconsistent behavior or instructions. It carries a strong sense of frustration and helplessness, often implying that the speaker is being toyed with rather than just being momentarily puzzled. The repetition of the character 陀 creates a rhythmic, almost dizzying effect that mirrors the feeling of being unable to find one's footing.
Examples
He keeps changing his mind, which makes me so confused.
Related words
Common phrases
to cause someone to be confused
to toy with someone until they are confused
Common mistake
Do not confuse this with simply being forgetful or having a bad memory. It specifically requires an external agent or situation that is actively causing the confusion through inconsistency or deception.
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Grammar guides
- TonesCantonese has six tones, and the tones can change in certain grammatical contexts. Learn the six tones and the rules for tone change.
- Time and datesClock time, days of the week, months, and years. The patterns you need to make plans and talk about when things happen.
- Modal verbsHow to say can, will, may, should, must, and want. The core modal verbs of Cantonese and the differences that trip up beginners.



