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Definition
To show one's cards in a card game, or to have a showdown by revealing one's true thoughts to settle a dispute.
- to reveal one's hand or hole card in a card game such as poker
- to have a showdown; to confront someone and lay one's cards on the table
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How it's used
Originally a gambling term for revealing cards, this is now used metaphorically for any situation where someone stops beating around the bush. It carries a heavy, serious tone and implies that the relationship or situation will likely change permanently after the conversation. It is rarely used for minor disagreements, as it suggests a final, decisive moment of truth.
Examples
I've decided to have a showdown with him tonight and clarify our relationship.
How much longer do you want to hide this? Do you only feel happy after a confrontation?
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Common mistake
Do not use this for simple arguments or debates. It implies a 'point of no return' where you are forcing the other person to face reality, often risking a breakup or a complete fallout.
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Grammar guides
- NegationHow to say no, not, didn't, and don't in Cantonese. The four main negation words and when to use each one.
- Numbers and moneyCounting, talking about money, and asking how much things cost. Includes the two words for two and the everyday words for dollars and cents.
- Aspect markersCantonese has no tenses, but it does have aspect markers. Learn how zo2, gwo3, gan2, and hai2 dou6 show completion, experience, and ongoing action.
